RELATIONSHIP
Although I’ve never been in a relationship before, but I’ve mingled, and still single because I don’t want to entangle myself into what I can’t disentangle myself from. My knowledge on relationship is from a whole lot of sources which time will not permit me to acknowledge all of them.
Before you get into a relationship, you start to ponder over the reasons for getting into it, wonder about what goes into it and yonder about it.
Some go into relationship for only sex but relationship is not all about sex. As a result, some end up being ditched. Others are also ditched for other reasons. But when you are ditched, you don’t have to be sad, sit all alone and feel bad. Don’t think there is no hope and all is lost. Do you know how beautiful or handsome you are? The spirit of your creator leaves and dwells in you. All over the world, no one looks like you. You can put a smile on your face. Your creator watches you and his eyes are like a sparrow. Your creator knows all the pain you’ve being going through. Do you know you are the apple of his eyes? Take a look inside of you. Take your time at what you see. Isn’t it is so beautiful? Look at how beautiful or handsome your creator made you. Look at the beauty of his works.Come on,cheer up!!
The foundation of a good relationship is good communication,quality time and sacrifice.What do i mean by sacrifice,sometimes you have to give up on certain things you cherished so much for your partner to enjoy the relationship. This brings about understanding and chemistry in the relationship. Good communication generally means knowing what is going on with each other. Quality time basically means having time for each other at yonder from everything which will promote some privacy and heart to heart talk.
The chemistry comes in the feeling of belongingness. That is feeling some kind emptiness in the absence of one another.
But as to the multi-billion dollar question, that is “IS IT GOOD TO ENTER INTO A RELATIONSHIP DURING YOUR EDUCATIONAL CYCLE?”
As a motivator and counsellor I will say; to everything there is a season and a time. Your creator’s time is the best!!!!!!!!!
