RELATIONSHIP
Although I’ve never been in a relationship before, but I’ve mingled, and still single because I don’t want to entangle myself into what I can’t disentangle myself from. My knowledge on relationship is from a whole lot of sources which time will not permit me to acknowledge all of them.
Before you get into a relationship, you start to ponder over the reasons for getting into it, wonder about what goes into it and yonder about it.
Some go into relationship for only sex but relationship is not all about sex. As a result, some end up being ditched. Others are also ditched for other reasons. But when you are ditched, you don’t have to be sad, sit all alone and feel bad. Don’t think there is no hope and all is lost. Do you know how beautiful or handsome you are? The spirit of your creator leaves and dwells in you. All over the world, no one looks like you. You can put a smile on your face. Your creator watches you and his eyes are like a sparrow. Your creator knows all the pain you’ve being going through. Do you know you are the apple of his eyes? Take a look inside of you. Take your time at what you see. Isn’t it is so beautiful? Look at how beautiful or handsome your creator made you. Look at the beauty of his works.Come on,cheer up!!
The foundation of a good relationship is good communication,quality time and sacrifice.What do i mean by sacrifice,sometimes you have to give up on certain things you cherished so much for your partner to enjoy the relationship. This brings about understanding and chemistry in the relationship. Good communication generally means knowing what is going on with each other. Quality time basically means having time for each other at yonder from everything which will promote some privacy and heart to heart talk.
The chemistry comes in the feeling of belongingness. That is feeling some kind emptiness in the absence of one another.
But as to the multi-billion dollar question, that is “IS IT GOOD TO ENTER INTO A RELATIONSHIP DURING YOUR EDUCATIONAL CYCLE?”
As a motivator and counsellor I will say; to everything there is a season and a time. Your creator’s time is the best!!!!!!!!!
Thursday, January 20, 2011
Wednesday, October 13, 2010
SITUATIONS OF LIFE
SITUATIONS OF LIFE
As one is sick, the other is as fit as a fiddle. As one is weeping, the other is jubilating. As one is brought forth, the other is buried. As one is satisfied, the other is hungry. As one is happy, the other is sad. As one passed, the other failed. As one is playing, the other is learning. As one is rich, the other is poor. As one is building, other’s is being dismantled. As one won, the other lost. As one is weeding in a sunny day for daily bread, the other is sitting in a luxurious office for daily bread. As one has many children, the other is barren. As one is travelling by bus, the other is travelling by foot. As one is handicapped, the other is having all body parts. All these situations do happen at the same time. That is, as one is in a situation, the other is also facing another situation at the same point in time.
The situations are so many that time will not permit me to elaborate on all of them.
But this is what I have to say. It is not our creator’s intention that bad things befall us but sometimes it is as a result of the choices we make in life. Remember, what you sow is what you reap. It could also be natural circumstances which are beyond our control.
But as a counsellor and motivator, I will urge you to give thanks to your creator in whatsoever situation you find yourself. Don’t let the situation be a stumbling block but keep on pressing towards the goal. Therefore laying aside every weight let us look unto our creator the author and finisher of our faith. Also remember all things work together for our good, to them that love their creator and to them that are called according to his purpose. Never let any situation belittles you but rather belittle the situation. Also remember life is how you make it so if you let any situation belittles you, your life will also be belittled. Learn to do your best in every situation you find yourself. Also cultivate the habit of always being happy because getting yourself worried always doesn’t add a dime to your life but rather affect your health.
Always aspire to acquire the desire you admire. Don’t retire even when people conspire because you have a creator who will make their plans expire. If you misfire, never retire because your creator will lift you higher. Keep on pressing towards the goal and you will reach higher.
No matter the situation, remember your creator is always with you and will never leave you. Cheer up and give thanks to your creator for his everlasting love!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
As one is sick, the other is as fit as a fiddle. As one is weeping, the other is jubilating. As one is brought forth, the other is buried. As one is satisfied, the other is hungry. As one is happy, the other is sad. As one passed, the other failed. As one is playing, the other is learning. As one is rich, the other is poor. As one is building, other’s is being dismantled. As one won, the other lost. As one is weeding in a sunny day for daily bread, the other is sitting in a luxurious office for daily bread. As one has many children, the other is barren. As one is travelling by bus, the other is travelling by foot. As one is handicapped, the other is having all body parts. All these situations do happen at the same time. That is, as one is in a situation, the other is also facing another situation at the same point in time.
The situations are so many that time will not permit me to elaborate on all of them.
But this is what I have to say. It is not our creator’s intention that bad things befall us but sometimes it is as a result of the choices we make in life. Remember, what you sow is what you reap. It could also be natural circumstances which are beyond our control.
But as a counsellor and motivator, I will urge you to give thanks to your creator in whatsoever situation you find yourself. Don’t let the situation be a stumbling block but keep on pressing towards the goal. Therefore laying aside every weight let us look unto our creator the author and finisher of our faith. Also remember all things work together for our good, to them that love their creator and to them that are called according to his purpose. Never let any situation belittles you but rather belittle the situation. Also remember life is how you make it so if you let any situation belittles you, your life will also be belittled. Learn to do your best in every situation you find yourself. Also cultivate the habit of always being happy because getting yourself worried always doesn’t add a dime to your life but rather affect your health.
Always aspire to acquire the desire you admire. Don’t retire even when people conspire because you have a creator who will make their plans expire. If you misfire, never retire because your creator will lift you higher. Keep on pressing towards the goal and you will reach higher.
No matter the situation, remember your creator is always with you and will never leave you. Cheer up and give thanks to your creator for his everlasting love!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Monday, August 30, 2010
VIEWS
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LEADERSHIP
LEADERSHIP
To be a leader is one of the most difficult tasks on earth. You consider the interest of others before yours. Leadership is sacrifice.Mistakes are unpardonable in leadership. It takes courage, boldness, commitment, hard work, patience and determination to lead. Also to be a leader, you need a big heart which is capable of forgiving everyone who offends you no matter how painful the offence is. As a leader you need to set the right standards as said leadership by example. The benefits one get as leader are enormous.Leadership enables one to overcome every challenge that comes his or her way. Never be scared of leadership because it is great to be a leader!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
To be a leader is one of the most difficult tasks on earth. You consider the interest of others before yours. Leadership is sacrifice.Mistakes are unpardonable in leadership. It takes courage, boldness, commitment, hard work, patience and determination to lead. Also to be a leader, you need a big heart which is capable of forgiving everyone who offends you no matter how painful the offence is. As a leader you need to set the right standards as said leadership by example. The benefits one get as leader are enormous.Leadership enables one to overcome every challenge that comes his or her way. Never be scared of leadership because it is great to be a leader!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
MOTHERS
MOTHERS
A mother is the brain behind a child’s success. A mother’s love is one of the greatest treasures one can ever have. Being a mother is a great experience but the responsibilities that come with it are enormous. A child with good character is as a result of a good mother. To be a mother is not an easy thing. Carrying a baby inside her womb for nine month is a herculean task. Moreover the breastfeeding of a child is another task but through all this the mother does not hesitate. Aren't they special? Let’s give honor to whom honor is due. Thumbs up for our mothers!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
A mother is the brain behind a child’s success. A mother’s love is one of the greatest treasures one can ever have. Being a mother is a great experience but the responsibilities that come with it are enormous. A child with good character is as a result of a good mother. To be a mother is not an easy thing. Carrying a baby inside her womb for nine month is a herculean task. Moreover the breastfeeding of a child is another task but through all this the mother does not hesitate. Aren't they special? Let’s give honor to whom honor is due. Thumbs up for our mothers!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
FATHERS
FATHERS
A father is essential in one’s life. Life without a father is like leaving without oxygen. A father can be good or bad depending on the influence he has on a child. A father’s character is portrayed by his child. Being a father is a great privilege. The roles of a father are great but he manages to perform them all. A wayward child is as a result of poor upbringing by the father.Thus being head of the house or a breadwinner or a father is not a joke. So let us cherish our fathers because being a father is not a piece of cake!!!!!!!!!!!
A father is essential in one’s life. Life without a father is like leaving without oxygen. A father can be good or bad depending on the influence he has on a child. A father’s character is portrayed by his child. Being a father is a great privilege. The roles of a father are great but he manages to perform them all. A wayward child is as a result of poor upbringing by the father.Thus being head of the house or a breadwinner or a father is not a joke. So let us cherish our fathers because being a father is not a piece of cake!!!!!!!!!!!
FRIENDSHIP
FRIENDSHIP
Friends are good and bad. Friendship is sacrifice. Making friends is essential as one does not know what the future entails. Friendship is bitter and sweet. Friendship can either have good influence or bad influence. Friends can cause success and failure. Friendship is patience, kindness and understanding. One’s character is portrayed by his or her friend. Friendship is also about give and take because a friend in need is a friend indeed. But there is one friend above all friends and that is our creator. Let us learn to make friends because it is not all about failures, sadness but happiness, success and blessings!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Friends are good and bad. Friendship is sacrifice. Making friends is essential as one does not know what the future entails. Friendship is bitter and sweet. Friendship can either have good influence or bad influence. Friends can cause success and failure. Friendship is patience, kindness and understanding. One’s character is portrayed by his or her friend. Friendship is also about give and take because a friend in need is a friend indeed. But there is one friend above all friends and that is our creator. Let us learn to make friends because it is not all about failures, sadness but happiness, success and blessings!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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